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During the forties
of last century, ever visitor to Torquay noticed 2 young ladies
of very singular appearance. Their residence was in one of the
two thatched cottages on the left or Tor Abbey Ave., looking seaward,
very near the Torgate of the avenue. Their chief places of promenade
were the Strand and Victoria Parade, but they were often seen
in other parts of the town. Bad weather was the only thing that
kept them from frequenting their usual beat. They were two Misses
Durnford, and their costume was peculiar. The style varied only
in tone and colour. Their shoes were generally green, but sometimes
red. They were by no means bad-looking girls when young, but they
were so berouged as to present the appearance of painted dolls.
Their brown hair worn in curls were fastened with blue ribbon,
and they wore felt or straw hats, usually tall in the crown and
curled up at the sides. About their throats they had very broad
frilled or lace collars that fell down over their backs and breasts
a long way. But in summer their necks were bare, and adorned with
chains of coral or bead. Their gowns were short, so short in deed
as to display about the ankles a good deal more than was necessary
of certain heavily-frilled cotton investitures of their lower
limbs. In winter over their gowns were worn check jackets of a
"loud" pattern reaching to their knees, and of a different
colour from their gowns, and with lace cuffs. They were never
seen, winter or summer, without their sunshades. The only variation
to the jacket was a gray-coloured shawl crossed over the bosom
and tied behind at the waist.
The
sisters dressed exactly alike, and were so much alike in face
as to appear to be twins. They were remarkably good walkers, kept
perfectly in step, were always arm in arm, and spoke to no one
but each other.
The
lived with their mother, and kept no servant. All the work of
the house was done by the three, so that in the morning they made
no appearance in the town; only in the afternoon had they assumed
their war-paint, when, about 3pm, they sallied forth; but, however
highly they rouged and powdered, and however strange was their
dress, they carried back home no captured hearts. Indeed, the
visitors to Torquay looked upon them with some contempt as not
being in society and not dressing in the fashion; only some of
the residents felt for them in their solitude some compassion.
They were the daughters of a Colonel Durnford, and had lived at
Alphington. The mother was of an inferior social rank. They had
a brother, a major in the Army, 10th Regiment, who was much annoyed
at their singularity of costume, and offered to increase their
allowance if the would discontinue it but this they refused to
do.
When
first they came to Torquay, they drove a pair of pretty ponies
they had brought with them from Alphington; but their allowance
being reduced, and being in straitened circumstances, they had
to dispose of ponies and carriage. By an easy transfer the name
of Alphington Ponies passed on from the beasts to their former
owners.
As
they were not well off, the occasionally got into debt, and were
summoned before the Court of Requests; and could be impertinent
even to the judge. On one occasion, when he had made an order
for payment, one of them said, "Oh, Mr. Praed, we cannot
pay now; but my sister is about to be married to the Duke of Wellington,
and then we shall be in funds and be able to pay for all we have
had and are likely to want!" Once the two visited a shop
and gave an order, but, instead of paying, flourished what appeared
to be the half of a 5 pound note, saying, that when they had received
the other half, they would be pleased to call and discharge the
debt. But the tradesman was not to be taken in, and declined to
execute the order. Indeed, the Torqay shopkeepers were very shy
of them, and insisted on the money being handed over the counter
before they would serve the ladies with the goods that they required.
They
made no acquaintances in Torquay or in the neighbourhood, not
did any friends come from a distance to stay with them They would
now and then take a book out of the circulating library, but seemed
to have no literary tastes, and no special pursuits. There was
a look of intelligence, however, in their eyes, and the expression
of their faces was decidedly amiable and pleasing.
They
received very few letters; those that did arrive probably contained
remittances of money, and were eagerly taken in at the door, but
there was sometimes a difficulty about finding the money to pay
for the postage. It is to be feared that the butcher was obdurate,
and that often they had to go without meat. Fish, however, was
cheap.
A
gentleman writes: "Mr. Garrow's house, The Braddons, was
on my father's hands to let. One day the gardener, Tosse, came
in hot haste to father and complained that the Alphington Ponies
kept coming into the grounds and picking the flowers, that when
remonstrated with they declared that they were related to the
owner, and had permission. "Well," said father, "the
next time you see them entering the gate rundown and tell me."
In a few days Tosse hastened to say that the ladies were again
there. Father hurried up to the grounds at once. They began the
same story to him of their relationship to the owner, adding hereto,
that they were cousins of the Duke of Wellington. "Come,"
said father, " I can believe one person can go mad
to any extent in any direction whatever, but the improbability
to two persons going mad in identically the same direction
and manner at the same time is a little too much for my credulity.
Ladies, I beg you to proceed," And proceed they did."
After
some years they moved to Exeter, and took lodgings in St. Sidwell's
parish. For a while they continued to dress in the same strange
fashion; but they came into some money, and then were able to
indulge in trinkets, to which they had always a liking, but which
previously they could not afford to purchase. At a large fancy
ball, given in Exeter, two young Oxonians dressed up to represent
these ladies; they entered the ballroom solemnly, arm in arm,
with their parasols spread, paced round the room, and finished
their perambulation with a waltz together. This caused much amusement;
but several ladies felt that it was not in good taste, and might
wound the poor crazy Misses Durnford. This, however, was not the
case. So far from being offended at being caricatured, they were
vastly pleased, accepting this as the highest flattery. Were not
princesses and queens also represented at the ball? Why, then,
not they?
One
public ball they did attend together, at which, amongst others,
were Lady Rolle and Mr. Palk, son of the them sir Lawrence Palk.
Owing to their conspicuous attire, they drew on them the attention
of Lady Rolle, who challenged Mr. Palk to ask one of the sisters
for a dance, and offered him a set of gold and diamond shirt studs
if he could prevail on either of them to be his partner. Mr. Palk
accepted the challenge, but on asking for a dance was met in each
case by the reply, "I never dance except my sister be also
dancing." Mr. Palk then gallantly offered to dance with both
sisters at once, or in succession. He won and wore the studs.
A
gentleman writes: "In their early days, they made themselves
conspicuous by introducing the bloomer arrangement in the nether
latitude. This, as you may well suppose, was regarded as a scandal;
but these ladies, who were never known to speak to any one, or
to each other out of doors, went on their way quite unruffled.
years and years after this, you may imagine my surprise at meeting
them in Exeter, old and grey, but the same singular silent pair.
Then, after an interval of a year or two, only one appeared. I
assure you, it give me pain to look at the poor lonely, very lonely
soul; but it was not for long. Kind Heaven took her also, and
so a tiny ripple was made, and there was an end of the Alphington
Ponies."
Friends
of Exeter Museums & Art Gallery
A selection of favourites work from the Fine Art
collections chosen by the Friends
27
November - 15 January 1999
Royal Albert Memorial Museum, Exeter
Exhibition
- Friends
of Exeter Museums & Art Gallery ~ Choice Exhibition
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The
Alphington Ponies
Anonymous maker, Staffordshire
Ceramic
Chosen by Dr Christine Hall,
Vice-Chairman.
Dr Hall writes,
"I first came across the Alphington Ponies while
helping to catalogue the prints here at RAMM. Little
was known about them, and I was given the job of finding
out what I could. Briefly, I found that they were
the daughters, named Arabella and Eliza, of Colonel
Andrew Durnford of Alphington, Exeter. Their father
is reputed to have abandoned his family when he ran
away with his daughters' governess. In dire financial
straits, the girls, and their mother moved from Alphington
to Torquay. Here they were forced to sell their pony
and trap from their former life, which led to them
receiving their nickname.
The two ladies became notorious
for their unvarying afternoon perambulations around
Torquay, always dressed alike and speaking to no-one.
Another unsubstantiated account puts their eccentricities
down to a tragedy in their lives. They were supposedly
engaged to two brothers, one of whom accidentally
shot and killed the other, and then died of a broken
heart. There is much more to tell about the whole
fascinating family, which I shall hope to do some
time. Meanwhile if anyone knows anything more about
them, please do contact me via the Museum, as I should
be delighted to learn it." |
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