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During the forties of last century, ever visitor to Torquay
noticed 2 young ladies of very singular appearance. Their residence
was in one of the two thatched cottages on the left or Tor Abbey
Ave., looking seaward, very near the Torgate of the avenue. Their
chief places of promenade were the Strand and Victoria Parade,
but they were often seen in other parts of the town. Bad weather
was the only thing that kept them from frequenting their usual
beat. They were two Misses Durnford, and their costume was peculiar.
The style varied only in tone and colour. Their shoes were generally
green, but sometimes red. They were by no means bad-looking girls
when young, but they were so berouged as to present the appearance
of painted dolls. Their brown hair worn in curls were fastened
with blue ribbon, and they wore felt or straw hats, usually tall
in the crown and curled up at the sides. About their throats they
had very broad frilled or lace collars that fell down over their
backs and breasts a long way. But in summer their necks were bare,
and adorned with chains of coral or bead. Their gowns were short,
so short in deed as to display about the ankles a good deal more
than was necessary of certain heavily-frilled cotton investitures
of their lower limbs. In winter over their gowns were worn check
jackets of a "loud" pattern reaching to their knees,
and of a different colour from their gowns, and with lace cuffs.
They were never seen, winter or summer, without their sunshades.
The only variation to the jacket was a gray-coloured shawl crossed
over the bosom and tied behind at the waist.
The sisters dressed exactly alike, and were
so much alike in face as to appear to be twins. They were remarkably
good walkers, kept perfectly in step, were always arm in arm,
and spoke to no one but each other.
The lived with their mother, and kept no servant.
All the work of the house was done by the three, so that in the
morning they made no appearance in the town; only in the afternoon
had they assumed their war-paint, when, about 3pm, they sallied
forth; but, however highly they rouged and powdered, and however
strange was their dress, they carried back home no captured hearts.
Indeed, the visitors to Torquay looked upon them with some contempt
as not being in society and not dressing in the fashion; only
some of the residents felt for them in their solitude some compassion.
They were the daughters of a Colonel Durnford, and had lived at
Alphington. The mother was of an inferior social rank. They had
a brother, a major in the Army, 10th Regiment, who was much annoyed
at their singularity of costume, and offered to increase their
allowance if the would discontinue it but this they refused to
do.
When first they came to Torquay, they drove
a pair of pretty ponies they had brought with them from Alphington;
but their allowance being reduced, and being in straitened circumstances,
they had to dispose of ponies and carriage. By an easy transfer
the name of Alphington Ponies passed on from the beasts to their
former owners.
As they were not well off, the occasionally
got into debt, and were summoned before the Court of Requests;
and could be impertinent even to the judge. On one occasion, when
he had made an order for payment, one of them said, "Oh,
Mr. Praed, we cannot pay now; but my sister is about to be married
to the Duke of Wellington, and then we shall be in funds and be
able to pay for all we have had and are likely to want!"
Once the two visited a shop and gave an order, but, instead of
paying, flourished what appeared to be the half of a 5 pound note,
saying, that when they had received the other half, they would
be pleased to call and discharge the debt. But the tradesman was
not to be taken in, and declined to execute the order. Indeed,
the Torqay shopkeepers were very shy of them, and insisted on
the money being handed over the counter before they would serve
the ladies with the goods that they required.
They made no acquaintances in Torquay or in
the neighbourhood, not did any friends come from a distance to
stay with them They would now and then take a book out of the
circulating library, but seemed to have no literary tastes, and
no special pursuits. There was a look of intelligence, however,
in their eyes, and the expression of their faces was decidedly
amiable and pleasing.
They received very few letters; those that
did arrive probably contained remittances of money, and were eagerly
taken in at the door, but there was sometimes a difficulty about
finding the money to pay for the postage. It is to be feared that
the butcher was obdurate, and that often they had to go without
meat. Fish, however, was cheap.
A gentleman writes: "Mr. Garrow's house,
The Braddons, was on my father's hands to let. One day the gardener,
Tosse, came in hot haste to father and complained that the Alphington
Ponies kept coming into the grounds and picking the flowers, that
when remonstrated with they declared that they were related to
the owner, and had permission. "Well," said father,
"the next time you see them entering the gate rundown and
tell me." In a few days Tosse hastened to say that the ladies
were again there. Father hurried up to the grounds at once. They
began the same story to him of their relationship to the owner,
adding hereto, that they were cousins of the Duke of Wellington.
"Come," said father, " I can believe one
person can go mad to any extent in any direction whatever, but
the improbability to two persons going mad in identically
the same direction and manner at the same time is a little too
much for my credulity. Ladies, I beg you to proceed," And
proceed they did."
After some years they moved to Exeter, and
took lodgings in St. Sidwell's parish. For a while they continued
to dress in the same strange fashion; but they came into some
money, and then were able to indulge in trinkets, to which they
had always a liking, but which previously they could not afford
to purchase. At a large fancy ball, given in Exeter, two young
Oxonians dressed up to represent these ladies; they entered the
ballroom solemnly, arm in arm, with their parasols spread, paced
round the room, and finished their perambulation with a waltz
together. This caused much amusement; but several ladies felt
that it was not in good taste, and might wound the poor crazy
Misses Durnford. This, however, was not the case. So far from
being offended at being caricatured, they were vastly pleased,
accepting this as the highest flattery. Were not princesses and
queens also represented at the ball? Why, then, not they?
One public ball they did attend together, at
which, amongst others, were Lady Rolle and Mr. Palk, son of the
them sir Lawrence Palk. Owing to their conspicuous attire, they
drew on them the attention of Lady Rolle, who challenged Mr. Palk
to ask one of the sisters for a dance, and offered him a set of
gold and diamond shirt studs if he could prevail on either of
them to be his partner. Mr. Palk accepted the challenge, but on
asking for a dance was met in each case by the reply, "I
never dance except my sister be also dancing." Mr. Palk then
gallantly offered to dance with both sisters at once, or in succession.
He won and wore the studs.
A gentleman writes: "In their early days,
they made themselves conspicuous by introducing the bloomer arrangement
in the nether latitude. This, as you may well suppose, was regarded
as a scandal; but these ladies, who were never known to speak
to any one, or to each other out of doors, went on their way quite
unruffled. years and years after this, you may imagine my surprise
at meeting them in Exeter, old and grey, but the same singular
silent pair. Then, after an interval of a year or two, only one
appeared. I assure you, it give me pain to look at the poor lonely,
very lonely soul; but it was not for long. Kind Heaven took her
also, and so a tiny ripple was made, and there was an end of the
Alphington Ponies."
Friends
of Exeter Museums & Art Gallery
A selection of favourites work
from the Fine Art collections chosen by the Friends
27 November
- 15 January 1999
Royal Albert Memorial Museum, Exeter
Exhibition
- Friends
of Exeter Museums & Art Gallery ~ Choice Exhibition
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The
Alphington Ponies
Anonymous maker, Staffordshire
Ceramic
Chosen by Dr Christine Hall,
Vice-Chairman.
Dr Hall writes,
"I first came across the Alphington Ponies while
helping to catalogue the prints here at RAMM. Little
was known about them, and I was given the job of finding
out what I could. Briefly, I found that they were
the daughters, named Arabella and Eliza, of Colonel
Andrew Durnford of Alphington, Exeter. Their father
is reputed to have abandoned his family when he ran
away with his daughters' governess. In dire financial
straits, the girls, and their mother moved from Alphington
to Torquay. Here they were forced to sell their pony
and trap from their former life, which led to them
receiving their nickname.
The two ladies became notorious
for their unvarying afternoon perambulations around
Torquay, always dressed alike and speaking to no-one.
Another unsubstantiated account puts their eccentricities
down to a tragedy in their lives. They were supposedly
engaged to two brothers, one of whom accidentally
shot and killed the other, and then died of a broken
heart. There is much more to tell about the whole
fascinating family, which I shall hope to do some
time. Meanwhile if anyone knows anything more about
them, please do contact me via the Museum, as I should
be delighted to learn it." Note:
I have contacted Dr. Hall. |
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